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Question: Heroin addict in the family, no one believes us!?
(Posted by: David M on 2010-03-05 17:23:24)
My fiance and I just bought a house. Here family lives right downt the street. Anyways, my fiances brother and I always used to get along pretty well. In fact, I would have considerd us good friends. I lent him thousands of dollars that he has "been unable to payback ", I never minded. It was more of an inconvinience for me than somthing that made me mad. Aside from that, when he visited us, he would always offer me pills for the pain in my hands, I already had medication of my own though. Needless to say, everytime he would come over he would talk about heroin being the same thing as pain killers, and so on. One night I caught him sniffing what appeared to be cocaine, he lied to me at first and told me he sniffed his pain pill, then later he admitted to actually snorting heroin. Since then, things have been up and down. He has no sense of reality, and lives in a fantasy land. He has no respect, he tells lies, half truths, and constantly exaggerates. Things have gone missing, things have gotten stolen, and its getting bad. My fiances parents dont believe her or me when we tell them that this guy has a serious problem. He sells it and uses it. He is what I call a "functional addict ". He claims he works, claims he goes places and dose things, but really he is using and selling heroin. He is a GOOD liar, and I believe that he has turned my fiances parents on us already implying that "we might try and say hes an addict " putting us in a position that when we finally did disclose the truth, we were lying about it. Anyways, I need help, we need help. We dont know what to do, what to say, because we cant prove anything. Its just what we have seen with our own eyes and know to be factual, against people who refuse the truth unless there is SOLID, HARD, proof. What to do? Thank you |
